Git-R-Done

As I was sitting at the Jimmy Buffett concert last night and he played my favorite song, "Son of a Son of a Sailor,"  it struck me that I have not accomplished as much this year as I had hoped to complete and it is high time to revisit my Living Life List for 2012.

I have done a few things so far this year and they are in no particular order:

• Paid down my car down by $1,000.
• Paid down short term debt by $817.89
• Increased my investment portfolio by $1,314.13
• Volunteered to help a friend with the KC Relay for Life in June 2012.
• Taking girls to Canada in July with grandparents for vacation.
• Found a new hair gal here in Bonner at Bangz Salon.
• Purchased tickets to take girls to T-Bones Game
• Signed up to help with the 48 Hour Film Project here in KC which will take place in August.
• Lost a total of 10 pounds

Goals for April/May:

• Register for a 5K race.
• Attend T-Bones game
• Plant front flower bed
• Plant hanging deck baskets
• Increase my KC Blue getting healthy/gift card by $20.
• Bring my lunch to work every day.
• Find a part-time job to help with debt reduction.
• Work out consistently 4 times per week starting today.
• Blog more.

As I watched Jimmy perform all my favorite songs, I realized that here was a man living his dream and doing what he loves....dressed in my favorite attire consisting of t-shirt, shorts, and flip flops.

What am I going to do today to make MY dreams a reality? 

What are you going to do to make YOUR dreams a reality?

Here's to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa

100 Quirky Things About Me

I recently read a blog where the blogger listed 100 interesting facts about herself and it was quite informative and entertaining to read.  I have been at a quandary about what to blog about so I decided to see if I could come up with 100 interesting (or quirky) facts about myself.   It was actually a lot harder than you may think, but here is what I came up with and they are in no specific order.....

1.  I love my job teaching children with special needs in a self-contained classroom setting.
2.  I am the oldest child.  I have a younger brother and sister.
3.  My mom died on March 30, two days before my 19th birthday.
4.  My best friends in college were Colleen, Wendy, and Judy...we were inseparable.
5.  I am obsessed with the Apple App called Fashion City...my store rocks!
6.  I am always early and I get really nervous when I am running late.....for anything.
7.  My piano teacher's name was Sister Gertrude and she was a mean nun who made my fingers bleed when I played the wrong keys.
8.  I love sushi.
9.  I was a candy striper while in junior high at St. Mary's Hospital with my BFF Dawn.
10. My first job was a waitress at Perkins...my number was #55.


11.  I love to garden.
12.  I love rollercoasters.  The faster and scarier the better.
13.  I hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon with my family in 1989.
14.  I love to lay by the ocean and work on my tan.
15.  I am dating a great guy.
16.  My girls are the most important people in my life.
17.  I have two tattoos.  I regret the last one because the same tattoo is on my ex-boyfriends calf.  Never get a tattoo when you have had a couple cocktails.
18.  I believe that we don't get older, but we get better.
19.  I love playing blackjack in Vegas.
20.  I owe $71,000 or so in student loans (bad news here).


21.  I use a paper planner versus using my Smartphone calendar app.
22.  I have a BFF and we have been friends since 4th grade.
23.  My favorite drink is a mint mojito.
24.  I love to play tennis.
25.  I am addicted to caffeine and I love my morning coffee.
26.  My favorite movie of all time is Top Gun...I love a man in uniform.
27.  I have a friend who lives in Vicenza, Italy.
28.  I love to ride on a Harley.
29.  In my next life I am going to be a bounty hunter with Dog!!!


30.  My favorite TV series are Mad Man and Army Wives.
31.  I really miss my friends Christina, Heidi, and Lorraine who live in Minneapolis. 
32.  My favorite nickmane, "Auntie Seesha" from my cousin Ian who couldn't say Lisa.
33.  My first date was with a guy named Chad.  He had me over for dinner and his sister, Paula, cooked for us.
34.  I was a cheerleader in 9, 10, and 11th grade.  Football, basketball, and hockey.
35.  My handwriting is terrible and it looks super sloppy.  I prefer not to write.
36.  I need to lose 50 pounds.
37.  I loved my yellow VW beetle, but it spent more time in the shop than out of the shop.
38.  I get car sick if I have to sit in the backseat from too long.
39.  I love the Minnesota State Fair and Cheese Curds.


40.  I like Coke, not Pepsi.
41.  I dislike raisins and beets.
42.  I want to start an online business and write a book.
43.  I want to get married again someday.
44.  I dislike cleaning, but I love a clean house.
45.  I almost swam into a Moray Eel while scuba diving in Grand Cayman.
46.  I would rather be outdoors than indoors.
47.  I have a lot of patience at work, but not so much at home.
48.  My blood type is B+
49.  I had a tumor removed in my back that was the size of a large porkchop and a tumor removed in my arm that was the size of a golf ball.


50.  I have read every Nancy Drew book published.
51.  I believe that toilet paper should go over and not under.
52.  I do not know how to whistle.
53.  I went to my first R rated movie with my friend Cindy T. and we had a forged note from her mom to say we could go.  The Movie was Cheech and Chong's Up In Smoke.
54.  Growing up the price for a movie ticket was .50 cents.
55.  I flunked the parallel parking portion of my driving test (I was more than 12 inches from curb).
56.  I have a motorcyle endorsement on my drivers license.
57.  I never went anywhere for spring break in college.
58.  I have been river rafting in Colorado.
59.  I have been skiing at Vail, Beaver Creek, Keystone, Copper Mountain, A-Basin, Steamboat Springs, Loveland, and Beckenridge all in Colorado.


60.  My ex-husband and I are great friends.
61.  I love to garage sale and love to get great deals.
62.  I ran the mile in track back in high school.
63.  I would love to win the lottery and travel the world.
64.  I have ran three half-marathon races.
65.  I have completed two MS 150 bike events.
66.  I have a goal to visit every state in the USA and to visit all seven continents.
67.  I have an awesome older daughter (according to Caroline) :)
68.  In 1990 I was hit by a Ford Bronco as I was walking across the street.  This hit left painful arthritis in my right hip.
69.  I attended We Fest in 1990 and had an interesting time.


70.  Kraut and pig hocks is my favorite meal that my dad cooks.
71.  I have a cousin, Anthony, who is an international model.
72.  My dream car would be a BMW 7-series.
73.  I have never purchased anything on Ebay.
74.  I discovered I really am a dog person.
75.  I really hate to bake.
76.  I have a passport with no stamps :(
77.  I got my first speeding ticket in 2010.
78.  I lost all my pictures (and I mean all) when our basement flooded in 2001.
79.  I think my best feature is my smile.


80.  My worst feature is my feet.
81.  I hate drama.
82.  I have no tolerance for people who lie and cheat.
83.  My wardrobe consists of "teacher clothes" and comes with holiday sweaters!!!!!!
84.  I saw the Grateful Dead at Soldier Field in Chicago....interesting show!
85.  I learned to type on a Selectric Typewriter (we did have the option of using a manual typewriter).
86.  When I was pregnant with Cate, I craved and ate Taco Bell soft shell tacos every day (really).
87.  I am legally blind without corrective lenses.
88.  I use to polish my dad's boots for .50 cents a pair back in high school.
89.  I used to work part-time at Target and I started at 4am.


90.  My ex-boyfriend is on a mission to find his wife on a Russian Mail Order Bride website.
91.  I was an April Fools baby.
92.  My first kiss was in first grade with a boy named Clint Anderson (he kissed me and it was in the coat closet).
93.  I am addicted to Facebook.
94.  My first pet was a bunny named Benjamin.
95.  Our first house in Shawnee, KS was struck by lightening within the first three weeks of us owning it. 
96.  I saw Lyle Lovett in the car rental line at the Aspen Airport.  He smiled at me.
97.  My hollywood crushes in my youth were:  Shaun Cassidy, David Cassidy, and Leif Garrett.
98.  I live on a tight (and I mean tight) budget.
99.  I prefer the sunrise to sunset.
100.  I love my life and believe that God has a plan for everything.  We just need to have faith and trust in Him.

Okay, so there you have it.  I could have added a couple more things, but I needed to keep this G rated.

Here's to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa

Summer Living in Minnesota

Just found these pictures of my parents farm, Forest Glen Farm, and I thought I would share them with you.  My parents live in Northern Minnesota and they have the most gorgeous place and I cannot wait to spend 2 weeks there in July.  I LOVE summer in Minnesota!

Here's to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa

Yummy Vegetarian Recipes

I am sharing with you all two recipes that I have tried lately that are not only delicious, but very healthy.   One recipe came from a friend (thanks Shawn), and the other came from someone who attended the Vegan potluck at the yoga studio a couple of weeks ago.  Both are easy to make and my girls loved the pie! 


Vegan Peanut Butter Pie

• 16 oz. soft silken tofu
• 1 cup creamy peanut butter (make sure the natural peanut butter firms well when refrigerated, so as to help form)
• 3/4 sugar (one part brown sugar and one part sugar)
• 2 tbsp soy milk (I used rice milk and it worked out fine)
• 2 tsp vanilla extract
• 1 pre-made vegan pie crust baked (I used regular pie crust)
• 1/2 cup peanuts

Mix tofu, peanut butter, sugars, soy milk, and vanilla in a food processor or a large mixing bowl using a hand mixer.


Spoon contents into baked pie shell.  Place in refrigerator and cool for at least 2 hours then enjoy!


For chocolate topping:


In a small deep pan, pour 1/2 cup soy milk and place 1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips in a pan on low to medium heat.  Stir slowly until all the chips have melted.  Sprinkle chocolate topping and peanuts on top of pie.   If you don't want to add the chocolate and/or nuts, the pie tastes great without this topping.




Black Bean and Tomato Quinoa

• 2 tsp grated lime zest
• 2 tbsp fresh lime juice
• 2 tbsp unsalted butter, melted and cooled
• 1 tbsp vegetable oil
• 1 tsp sugar
• 1 cup quinoa (found in rice section of grocery store)
• 1 (14-15 oz) can black beans, rinsed and drained
• 2 medium tomatoes, diced (you can use fresh or canned)
• 4 scallions, chopped
• 1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro (I used 1/2 cup, because I love cilantro)

Whisk together lime zest and juice, butter, oil, sugar, 1/2 teaspoon salt, and 1/4 teaspoon pepper in a large bowl.


Wash quinoa in 3 changes of cold water in a bowl, draining in a sieve each time.


Cook quinoa in a medium pot of boiling salt water (1 tbsp for every 2 quarts water), uncovered, until almost tender, about 10 minutes.  Drain in sieve, then set sieve in same pot with 1 inch of simmering water (water should not touch the bottom of sieve).  Cover quinoa with a folded kitchen towel, then cover sieve with a lid (don't worry if lid doesn't fit tightly) and steam over medium heat until tender, fluffy, and dry about 10 minutes.  Remove pot from heat and remove lid.  Let stand, still covered with towel for 5 minutes.


Add quinoa to dressing and toss until dressing is absorbed, then stir in remaining ingredients and salt and peper to taste.

Here's to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa

Farewell to Friends

Today we said farewell to a classmate from high school.  This makes the second death of someone I have known since grade school within the past year.  As I think about Steve and Linda (and all the other classmates who have passed), I remind myself that our time here on Planet Earth is short, very short.  We must make the most of each and every day.


Steve and Linda were wonderful people whom had a love for life and a love for family.  Even though I haven't seen either one since graduation, which was almost 30 years ago, I remember the good times we all shared as we made our way from grade school to high school graduation.   Because our last names were close, Steve was always not too far away.   Steve always kept me laughing through school, and he had a larger than life personality.  He never took life too seriously, and he was a great guy.  Linda was the same way.  Both lived their lives fully and  they both had a lot of love to go around.  They were the sunshine on a cloudy day.


So as I pray for all of our classmates who are no longer with us, I also pray for those that are still with us today.  I pray that they are safe, happy, and that they find blessings each and every day.


So Steve, I am certain that you will be welcomed with open arms into the Kingdom of Heaven by those that have preceeded you in death.  I know that Butch and Linda have already found you and have welcomed you.  And knowing Butch and Linda, they are already having a celebration for you.


And to the rest of still remaining here on Earth, may we remember what is important in life.  It is not the cars, the houses, or the fat bank account (although that might be nice) that is what is important.  What we need to be thankful for is our family and friends that help get us through the bad times and rejoice in the good times.  Family love is so important. 


So Steve, you will be missed, and remember to save a spot for each and every one of us when our time comes.  Life is so important and we must not take it for granted.  We never know when God will call us or our family members to His house.   Life is a gift and we must treat it at such.


May God bless your family through this difficult time.

Top 10 Signs You Might be Dating a Professional Liar/Cheater

So I got a call from a friend a couple of weeks ago and as we were catching up on what was going on in our lives, I asked her if she was still seeing "Bob."  She said, "No, and I will never see that scumbag again."  Turns out "Bob" just got married, has a baby on the way, and has been lying to her for months. When she confronted him with this new information, he said it was all true, but they were married on paper only, and that he would still like to see her.  Are you kidding me????  She has not seen or talked to him since.

Having had some "interesting" dating experiences, and for my friends out there who are having serious doubts about their man, I have compiled a top 10 list for professional liars/serial daters. 

What I am about to share with you came from one person, yes one person.  When you read one of his many online dating profiles, he appears to be a great guy.  But, with this particular person, the answer would be to run away quickly before he sucks you in.  He is not who he appears and his online profile reads that he places high value on the following:

• Faith (Catholic and has not been to church regularly since July 2010).
• Honesty and communication (you can judge that one for yourself once you have read the list).
• Family (Four children living 250 miles away and he saw them twice in 2010 and less than five times in 2011).  He makes plenty of money and has tons of vacation time, so neither one of those is a valid excuse.

This goes to show you that everything you read on dating profiles is not as it appears. 

He might be a professional liar/cheater if.....

1. He has an active or hidden online dating profile (listen to your girlfriends when they think they saw his profile on Match or POF and check it out for yourself).
2. He hides his friends and wall posts on Facebook.  He will add you as a friend but will tell you not to post any messages or pictures on his page. (Well, when you are married and haven't told the GF this information, it makes perfect sense).
3. You find numerous hotel room receipts that were rented locally, while you were dating, and you were not there (he claims they were for work).
4. He is packing shorts, flip flops, warm weather attire when going to visit a cold weather state in November (turns out he was spending time in Tampa.  He would never tell me who, but it was an old GF I am certain).
5. You find a book on sexual addiction in the trunk of his car (he never did explain that one and denied it was his).
6. You suspect that he has a drinking problem.  This person has two DUIs - summer 2009 and fall of 2010.  (He didn't think I needed to know about the first one, and the second one he had to tell me because he had not one else to call to get him out of jail).
7. He does not answer your calls/text messages for hours and/or days on end.  When someone is usually where they should not be, they will be unavailable or will send very short, sporadic text replies.
8. He says "married" then changes his answer to "single" while he is applying for a loan and you are sitting right next to him.
9. He is extremely secretive with his phone.   When someone is a serial cheater they are usually very careful with their phone.  That is because they do not want you to see contacts, pictures, and text messages.  Now if you have an account together, easy to go online and look up history.  If you don't have an account together, still easy, just takes a little creativity. 
10. He will not look you in the eye when you are confronting him about something or he will answer your question with a question.  This type of person has a story for everything you will throw at them.  Trust me, I have heard it all.

So for those of you out there dating, hang in there.  I know that it is rough trying to find that someone special.

I am just saying that if he seems to good to be true, he probably is.  Listen to your intuition and to the advice of your family and friends.  Time is too precious to waste with someone who has serious issues.

Here's to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa

Forgiveness is Love

 

No matter what your goals, you cannot move forward until you forgive your loved ones, friends, yourself or even strangers who harmed and wronged you, whether deliberately or unintentionally.

When you feel forgiveness in your heart, it is easier to be happy, healthy, accomplish your goals and be at peace with yourself.  You see, forgiving another is really less about other people and more about being true, kind and respectful of ourselves.  Not forgiving someone else and not repenting for the wrongs you've committed can:

• Keep you trapped in anger and resentment
• Make you feel helpless, stuck and frustrated
• Harm you physically or emotionally
• Stop you from enjoying relationships or reveling in your accomplishments

On the other hand, forgiving others or asking for forgiveness can:

• Free, heal, nurture and release you
• Fill you with lightness, compassion and good will
• Empower and enliven you
• Bring you closer to God or goodness
• Refresh, reward and renew you

The following seven steps are important when a person needs to forgive someone else, or forgive themselves:

Face reality:  Own up to the reality that you need to forgive another person or yourself. If you don't accept that you're stuck in a bitter, unforgiving, intolerant quicksand, you'll never get out of your rut to live a sweet, fulfilling, and enriching life.

Out with the anger:   Even if you feel that the other person's offenses are real and your anger is justified, you should resolve to shed your resentment and anger.   Anger kept inside will just fester and will give you grey hair and wrinkles!

Remember that we are not perfect:   No one is perfect, and I think that we need to take a good look into our own thoughts and lives to see if we need to seek forgiveness from anyone. 

Give the benefit of the doubt:   Realize that, in most instances, the person(s) who harmed you was probably being either selfish or self-involved and was not out to hurt you. But if she or he had underlying, callous, unkind thoughts, then shower that person with pity, kindness and empathy. Looking at these "sinners"-or even yourself-with this kind of compassion and understanding can help to release you.

Imagine what forgiveness feels like:  Now visualize yourself breaking free with forgiveness. Pray to God for forgiveness, too.  Through Him all things are possible.

Value the experience:   Realize that forgiveness can be powerful and effective-perhaps as important as eating nourishing foods, exercising and believing in you. Acknowledge that letting go of anger and resentment can totally transform and improve your life.   I have seen this in my own life.

Embrace forgiveness:   Approaching another to apologize completes your 7-step process and helps you to achieve a joyous, merciful frame of mind. (If the person is no longer on this earth, imagine yourself humbly asking forgiveness and the other person pardoning you.)

I am one of those people that have difficulty with forgiving, but this past week I was able to forgive someone who hurt me dearly over the past couple of years.  Now, I didn’t say I forgot about his wrong doings (I am working on that one), but I have found it in my heart to forgive him.   I will spare you all the sordid details, but let me just say that what was done to me was hurtful, disrespectful, and outright deceitful.   Why did I stay with this person???  That is another subject for another day people.


The act of forgiveness is something that we should teach our children early on.  Along with teaching the act of forgiveness we should also be teaching them that is okay to admit that we did something wrong and apologize.  This goes along with taking responsibility for our own actions.  Nothing drives me crazier than to know someone who blames their mistakes on everyone else. 


Forgiveness is uplifting, gives us a clean state of mind, and allows us to move forward with our life. 

“To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.”

 ~ Robert Muller

Here’s to getting off the comfort couch and living life ~ Lisa